意料之外的集中隔离14天

上海集中隔离日记 2020年8月1-15日

8月1日,入住浦东20号隔离点,申江南路4888号。我的内心是绝望的,当初联系社区,居委会告诉我有车带我们全家去核酸检验点验核酸,我以为有小孩可以申请居家隔离。但是后来被告知,因为来自国内高风险区,所以必须集中隔离。自费,夫妻不能住同一间。
8月2日,下单在天猫超市买货,包括吃的和生活用品。隔离点只给了一箱水和一些消毒品一类,两周是不够的。早晨7点测了核酸,每天要报两次体温。想到昨天家里还有洗衣机的衣服洗到一半就被车送到了隔离点,很犯愁,因为规定隔离点不能送东西出去。联系前台好说歹说,终于把钥匙给了前台,他们据说还要消毒?!婆婆打车来前台拿到了钥匙去我们家帮我晾了衣服。每天下午一点收快递。
8月3日,八宝粥不让送,说是有锋利开口怕我们想不开。肠胃不舒服吐了一场。我跟魏奇几乎一人管孩子半天。在房间什么也没有,陪孩子就是全心全意陪玩,加上日常抓抓他的汉字教育,以及有限环境中的体育锻炼。
8月4日,台风黑格比登录浙江,风呼呼刮了一天,还挺凉快。晚上又下了一整晚的雨。
8月5日,经过再次斗争,一箱八宝粥送上来了。
8月6日,新买的几件玩具收到了,可以续命几日。吃得基本齐全,新米粥还能用热水壶喝水加热吃呢。网易严选的鸡胸肉和泡椒凤爪让我的泡面不那么单调了!
8月7日,平常的一天。喝了橙汁后就腹泻。看来对这个隔离反应最激烈的是我的肠胃。
8月8日,想到今天过了隔离就过半了,开心。细数一下我的每日防疫打卡日常,早晨起床先在单位群里报体温。两次给隔离点报体温,上午一次下午一次。晚上再在幼儿园app 里打卡报告。
8月9日 每日有惊喜,早晨七点骁骁就尿床了。忙乱一阵,酒店又给了我一套旅行装四件床套。每日运动是这样的Tracy Anderson的15分钟胳膊训练加20分钟帕梅拉的full body hit,做完我就大汗淋漓趴下了。洗个澡晚上还会做帕梅拉的15分钟拉伸。老魏据说每天在平米房里来回跑250回合能有3000米?!疯狂。不隔离的时候都没这么大运动量。
8月10日 白天35度,晚上短时强降雨,电闪雷鸣之时,酒店竟然整栋楼停电了20分钟。停电时尤金正好在隔壁,我就听到每每一打雷,隔壁就传来一阵兴奋的尖叫。
8月11日 魏奇说,要看着美食纪录片才能把速食吃下去。
8月12日 璀璨宝石桌游到手。好玩。
8月13日 心情已经在解除隔离的那一刻了。
8月14日 解除隔离倒计时。早晨七点做了核酸。但是中午出去拿饭时,工作人员提醒我戴口罩,说本酒店有确诊病例。这几天连续境外输入病例不少,可不就是从隔离酒店确诊的嘛,此地不宜久留。
8月15日 一上午都在打包收拾,隔离点迟迟不通知解除隔离。下午两点五十通知可以走了,工作人员十分钟后就上来带我们下楼了。14天的隔离结束,自由啦!

Diapers, Love and Adventure

昨天Antonia专程来上海找我们去看班夫户外电影节其中一场(两天共四场),去之前完全没有概念这是什么样一个奇怪的电影节,难道在户外看关于户外运动的电影?看完归来,发现有跟我预期不一样的收获,所以稍作记录。

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又是一年

2014又要过去了,我也趁着宝宝午睡来回头看。今年多了好几个新身份,兼职教师、学生和新手妈妈。每个都有挑战,我也付出了不少精力,但是今年最重要的事就是怀孕生宝宝做妈妈。现在宝宝一个月零一周,每天既觉得快又觉得慢,有挫折也有成就感。想要更新的记录好多,顺产日记、产后心情、坐月子、母乳喂养作战等等。怀胎十月,没有体会多少艰辛,顺产我也比自己想象的要坚强,没大喊没抓人没崩溃。但是产后的日子比我想象的艰辛许多。熬过了最艰难的两周,也逐渐迎来了宝宝的满月,哭过笑过不耐烦过虚弱过崩溃过也一次次重新振作起来,一切都在不断地调整中适应。看了好多书,理论,但是与实际相差永远很多;想要早早的培养宝宝有作息的生活规律和睡眠,但是事与愿违,现在却又是以稍微放松的心态,想着自然地陪伴他成长就好,给自己鼓鼓劲,孩子怎样都会被拉扯大,更多时候需要安抚的是自己的焦躁和急切。

2004年,大一上社会学基础课的时候,教授当时白话了两个小时的各种社会学实验和理论之后,在学校最大的教室con hall给所有修这门同学课的说,女士们,这堂课你们只需要记住一件事,要小孩是对你们一生改变最大的一个决定,我记忆深刻,现在更觉赞同。这个New Year’s Eve, 我没有什么特别的安排,穿着家居服在家想趁着空的把deadline是今天的作业写完交掉。辞旧迎新之际,是惊叹时间流逝,也是对未来期待的时候。日程本一天天翻过,继续成长!

2014.09.02 A new identity

September 2004, I took a picture wearing freshman t-shirt and jeans,  smiled in the picture not looking so excited but a little nervous, an unfamiliar new country, new school, with the English skills communicating with other new students I used to be so confident back in China but not so sure in this English speaking country, I was about to starting my college life and making new friends. I had no idea what the next four years were going to be and what impact would it have on me to my life.

September 2th, 2014, 10 years later, here I am, back to school. already  a mom-to-be and full-time employee, there’s now a new identity -a part time student. I was still a little shy and nervous when Alex took a photo of me standing in front of the university to record this day, but because of I was a little shy as a pregnant woman registering at school when seeing those new students all young and energetic and excited rather than I was exposing to a new environment like 10 years ago. I know it is not going to be easy, and now I think I know there are things I am looking forward to and I hope to remember in the next 3- 4 years,

I hope  I have a clearer vision of what I hope to accomplish as a mother and a student, so that I may guide my family and study with purpose.

I pray for wisdom so that I could make good decisions. I hope I have the self- control in all things so that I could concentrate and be best for my family.

I pray for physical and mental energy to take the responsibilities I have. I hope my heart will overflow with kindness and that will show in my words and actions.

Turning 30, hope life is getting better.

Week26Day5 精力依旧充沛+一点点正能量

昨天做了孕检糖耐量测试,随着去医院检查次数的增加,我也逐渐累积了经验,现在越来越会尽可能的缩短在医院时间排队时间了。每次产检都有必检项目,如排长队的听胎心,体重血压,还有验尿,检查完后总要再去看一次医生,回顾下当天检查内容,再开下次体检时间,缴费等。而另外一些项目是根据孕期进行程度,只进行一次的检查,如第四个月的b超和唐氏筛查,第五个半月的畸形大排查,第六个月的糖耐量测试,第七个月的脐带血。昨天我的流程是这样的~

7:00出发(空腹),7:40到医院

7:40 我去排队挂号,张麻麻去药房帮我拿上次已经付过费的8支葡萄糖

7:50 挂号后去病历室换大卡出来,顺便在一楼护士台拿听胎心的号,一看118号,目前只做到20-30号。紧接着去二楼抽血室,门口有人指导怎么把葡萄糖拧开倒入带来的水杯中,加一比一的温水,拿抽血号去抽血。

8:18 护士先抽了我空腹血,然后让我当她面喝完准备好的葡萄糖水,开了单子,让我9:18和10:18再回到同一窗口抽两次血,期间不能吃任何东西,渴了可以少喝点白水。

8:18-9:18 等待抽下管血的同时,我尽量多走动,因为看到说测糖耐量要尽量保持运动,回到一楼看看这个小时等到我听胎心估计还是没戏,就去把尿样留了,体重血压都自己量好。目前为止增重8公斤了,后期可千万别飙升太迅速了,我目标可是十公斤多一点。之后我又溜达到医院外面的面包店买了等会儿要吃的早餐(溜达没停过)等到9:16分,回到二楼验血室,这次不用拿号,只要跟同一个护士说一声,时间到了,她就会抽一管血。前面的姑娘据说喝完葡萄糖吐了,问怎么办?护士说接下来也不用测了,当天再喝剂量也不准,只能重新预约下次继续来检查这个项目,重新喝一遍糖水。

9:18-10:18 抽完第二管血的我回到一楼,终于轮到我测胎心了。顺利测完,尿检结果也有了,因为知道糖耐量结果当天拿不到,所以我就跟一楼护士台说了看医生,把下一次产检的时间预约好,付好费用。基本就大功告成,只差最后一管抽血。10:16回到二楼准备抽血,顺利完成后,终于可以吃到早餐了。到一楼服务台拿到下次预约单,归还大卡。结束了第五次的产检~

记录完产检,说说最近的工作。上周五刚忙完今年的留学生项目,在结业式上有好几位学员发言让我印象深刻,其中两位最有特色。

一位是西班牙一位五十多岁的女士,曾经90年来中国居住过五年,学习中医,并且在北京遇到了哥伦比亚老公,结婚蜜月还是在上海度过的,回国后再也没有到中国来过,直到今年这个项目。她英文不好,人非常真诚友好,她上台的presentation基本就是把提前做好的英文ppt很慢很诚恳的读了一遍,每页ppt是一个片段的过去与现在对比,其中说到当年结婚那段还哽咽了一下,但却收获了最长久的掌声。

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What I know about Shanghai

First of all I want to thank to the university the opportunity to enjo this wonderful exchange, 谢谢.  I am just going to explain some changes I’ve seen in Shanghai

I came to Beijing in January 1990 and lived there for 5 years

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Since then I have not returned to China.

I got a boy friend and got married in 1992 in Beijing.

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Then very few foreign couples were married in China.

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We were on honeymoon in Shanghai. We kissed on the street and people around us laughed. With one eye they looked to other way, with other eye they looked at us.

Now I’ve even seen two women kissing on the street as lovers.

We were in a hotel in the middle of the Nanjing Lu, although we were students.

Now I can only pay a modest hotel in a neighborhood of Shanghai.

We felt very strange because everyone looked at us and they even touched us to veryfy we were real persons.

Now, I am the same I look, because Chinese people seem to me unreal.

Chinese people was surprised when we spoke Chinese. Also when we ate with chopstics.

Now many people speak English, especially young people.

Then I smoked and people looked at me with terrified eyes.

Now, I’ve seen young Chinese girls smoking.

Then around Yuyuan there were small and old houses. Few souvenie shops.

Now, everything is ready for tourists.

Then we found only one Mcdonalds. Now…

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Nanjing Lu had many shops but very few were famous marks. Now…

Pudong was field with small houses.

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Now…

How Shanghai will be in 20 years?

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I wish everyone can see and enjoy it.

另外一位爱尔兰从事IT工作的学员朗读了自己做的一首诗(母语是英语的就是不一样哈),后来他告诉我诗的灵感来自于爱尔兰歌手Declan O’routke 的 “Christmas Wine”, 因为那首歌里与他现在心境有许多相似之处。

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Our Shanghai

Well we made our way through Autumn
To a place we hadn’t met
Where the faces weren’t familiar
But we were the honoured guests.
Well we knew we hadn’t long
but we didn’t think of time
And so we began to shine…
…this was our first taste of our ShangHai

Well we did some late night walking..
But we didn’t feel cold
With our yuan deep in our pockets
as our feelings turned to gold
And the moon it did get frozen
Branded into time
So we turned to face this party….
We were drinking in our ShangHai

Our night has run aground
We must set our lights free
We’ll keep our voices down
So you can’t see our tears
Let’s finish off the wine…
half a glass each
Then put the bottle down
And set upon our journeys

ShangHai’s rain seems to whisper
as it taps me on the shoulder
It seems to know a thing or two…
like I’ve found new friends, and will miss all of you

So remember what we’ve been told
As your eyes look into mine
Did we lose time?
Maybe we were drunk on our ShangHai 🙂

最后放一张我们团队的合影,很幸运工作以来一直遇到好的同事和领导,今年因为我怀孕,他们每个人都对我格外照顾和关心,对此I am very grateful。虽然我的部门下班后不联络,过年过节不聚餐,但也丝毫不影响我们的team spirit 😛

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